This is the cure to judgment. Next time you judge someone, ask yourself if you have ever done the same thing or something similar at some point in your life? This question puts you in a leadership position to relate to them, not judge them. The next time you hear gossip or witness non-confrontation, or see someone blame someone else, take it as an opportunity to relate and help them win. There are so many reasons people will judge you; it is impossible to have control over that. People judge others because of their own low self-esteem and of their own lack of self-acceptance. It is a non-serving program that some of us use to make ourselves feel temporarily better. “They must be terrible, so I feel better about myself now.” This doesn’t work long term. Move forward in understanding and acceptance.